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Biggest lies men tell on their first date

Very rarely do men speak honestly on their first date because they are out there to impress the woman.

They can lie about all sorts of things but there are 5 biggest lies which are common and it is up to you when it comes to forgiving them for the same.

Here is a list of those 5 lies that man tell on their first date.

1. The Job profile
Most men have this issue of exaggerating and lying about their job. They will make it sound like a fortune making company or job even if it is not. Men feel that this attracts women. They feel like it is necessary to show that they are the alpha males.

2. The apartment
Some men feel that if they talk about their apartment in a romantic and cool sense then they have all your attention. Few men reveal the fact that they are living with their parents and even if they talk about it as in India most of us are living with the parents, they will show that they have different entry point in the house etc.

3. The laid back attitude
Nobody reveals their anxiety issues on the first date. Men especially, try to show that they are very laid back and independent. Very few admit to the fact that they like to have things in order and that they cannot even boil an egg.

4. The drinking problem
If he drinks everyday, you will not get to know unless you start spending that much time with them. Men know that no woman likes to be with someone who has substance abuse issues. Men do have this tendency to downplay their number of drinks on the first date.

5. Working out
Being fit today is a major ask so most men try to show that they have just come from a workout, have to go to the gym etc. It may be true but they like to highlight it. They feel that this false aura impresses women and is a fail proof plan.

Source: News365

In other news – Disney responds to Peter Dinklage’s criticism of Snow White remake

Disney has responded to criticism made by Game of Thrones actor Peter Dinklage about its forthcoming live action adaptation of Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs.

Dinklage said the remake of the 1937 animated film, based on the story from the Brothers Grimm, was “backward”. Disney said it was going to “avoid reinforcing stereotypes from the original animated film”. Learn more

27/01/2022
Signs you have imposter syndrome & how to deal with it

Have you ever felt like you are not as competent as others see you be in intelligence, achievement, and even social context?

If so, then you might have imposter syndrome. In layman’s terms, imposter syndrome is the experience of feeling like a quack, and you only got lucky to achieve what you have.

People with imposter syndrome feel as if they will be found out at any moment, so they don’t share things often. However, impostor syndrome can affect anyone irrespective of status, background, or expertise.
Psychologists first used the term in the nineties, and it was initially thought to apply to high-achieving women, but it has been widely experienced since then.

Below are some signs of imposter syndrome, the forms, and how to cope with it.

Hallmarks of imposter syndrome
You often deny credit for your success, or you attribute your success to external factors
You often berate yourself
You don’t realistically access your abilities
You set impossible goals and feel disappointed when you don’t meet them
Because you underestimate your abilities, you tend to overprepare or work harder than necessary to ensure nobody finds out you’re a fake
Everyone feels like an imposter sometimes, but having this feeling continuously is dangerous and can damage your self-esteem. If you think the only reason you survived that class presentation was that you read all night or got promoted at work because you worked a lot more than your peers, then you have imposter syndrome.

Here are some questions you can ask yourself to know if you have imposter syndrome:

Do you feel like you’ll be eventually exposed as a phony?
Do you agonize over minor flaws or mistakes in your work?
Do you often take constructive criticism to heart?
Do you criticize yourself, even in areas where you’re more skilled than your counterparts?
If you can relate to any of these questions, you have imposter syndrome and need help. Of course, many factors like family upbringing, trying to fit into a new environment, personality, and social anxiety can trigger imposter syndrome, but you need not let it define you; if not, you’ll be looking over your shoulder all your life.

To cope with imposter syndrome, you need to understand that you’re worthy of love, affection, achievement, or praise. Accept that you’re not perfect, but you are good at what you do and confront the way you see yourself. Question your thoughts, access your abilities, and don’t let feelings of inadequacy hold you back. Only then can you be the best version of yourself. You can also speak to a therapist if you need to communicate your feelings.

Source: News365

In other news – I’m in an abusive relationship with my son – Prince Kaybee

Prince Kaybee has made it known that his relationship with his son is a little weird. The star shared that his son only calls him when he wants data.

He said he finds it funny with the type of relationship he has with his eldest son, Katleho, which he has been rumoured to not being present in his life countless times. Learn more

27/01/2022
Three omicron symptoms you shouldn’t ignore

In some comforting news amid Omicron spread globally, South Africa have passed the peak of Covid-19 infections, raising alarms across the country.

Although the variant has been mild so far, the increasing number of COVID-19 cases has become a major source of concern.

Furthermore, the belief that the new variant is mild, has made a lot of people negligent. While some dismiss the symptoms as harmless, others mistake it to be a regular cold, and roam around freely, spreading the virus to other people.

At such a time, it is important to be knowledgeable about all the symptoms associated with COVID-19 and its variants.

Common Omicron symptoms to watch out for
According to a US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention analysis, cough, fatigue, congestion and runny nose are the four most common symptoms of the Omicron variant.

Professor Tim Spector of Genetic Epidemiology at King’s College London, also the head of UK’s ZOE Covid study app, urges everyone suffering with cold-like symptoms to get tested immediately. As per him, mild fever, fatigue, scratchy throat, body pain, night sweats without any sign of loss of sense of smell and taste can signal an Omicron infection.

In a recent update, he also highlighted that nausea, vomiting and loss of appetite are also some of the symptoms reported by Omicron patients.

Keeping in view the rising number of COVID cases in the UK, Doctor Claire Steves, one of the scientists on the ZOE Covid Study app, has urged the Government to update its official list of symptoms. “It’s good news to see that fewer people are newly sick than a few weeks ago.

However, the fact that 75 percent of new cold-like symptoms are Covid, and the classic symptoms are much less common, means the Government advice needs to be urgently updated,” she said.

Having said that, let us see what these symptoms are that need to be taken into account.

1. Sore throat
Sore or scratchy throat is a symptom that came to the forefront since the beginning of the emergence of the Omicron variant. It could be associated with pain and irritation in the throat.

Dr Angelique Coetzee, Chairperson of the South African Medical Association, who also was the first to detect the Omicron variant, had earlier said that most patients infected with the new variant reported a “scratchy” throat with mild body temperature that gets better on its own.

2. Headache
Headache is a condition that can arise due to multiple reasons. But as far as COVID-19 or Omicron variant is concerned, scientists have urged that it be added to the official symptoms list.

Given the inflammation that takes place in the body post-infection, headache is a common ailment that may arise thereafter. The pain may range from sharp to dull, that may occur with other symptoms.

3. Runny nose
So far, most Omicron symptoms are said to coincide with a common cold or flu, which is making it difficult to tell whether what one has is COVID-19 or a regular cold.

Runny nose is a symptom that has time and again been associated with the coronavirus. Whether in case of breakthrough infection or an infection with the Omicron variant, runny nose has become more common in COVID-19 patients.

What next?
The most accurate way to determine a COVID-19 infection is through an RT-PCR test. While at-home tests may be a more convenient option to get a more prompt result, a molecular test can best tell you the exact results.

Professor Tim Spector recommends anyone who has developed cold symptoms to get themselves tested for COVID-19, so as to curb the spread of the virus. It is also advisable to stay home until and unless you know what you’re suffering from. The CDC recommends at least 10 days of home isolation from symptoms onset.

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11/01/2022
How to maintain your mental health in a toxic relationship

While fleeing the clutches of a toxic partner is imperative, you cannot let your mental health suffer as you make your way out of the relationship.

Whether your spouse or boyfriend has unintentionally toxic tendencies; you must safeguard yourself and your emotions.

Hence, we present a few simple ways in which you can feel peaceful and maintain your mental health in the interim.

1. Set firm boundaries
Having a headstrong and opinionated partner who can be emotionally abusive, is unfortunate. Nevertheless, while plotting your way out of such a relationship you must stand your ground and ensure that the partner doesn’t have his way all the time. Watching your life spiral out of control can be a daunting feeling, yet it is inevitable when you let a romantic partner make all your decisions for you. So, you must reclaim power over your own life by setting boundaries that ensure your lover cannot control or manipulate you.

2. Forgive but don’t give them another chance
Forgiving those who have wronged you allows you to let go of the mental baggage you may be carrying. So, while forgiving your partner for his or her misdeeds may be encouraged, you must not give them another chance. After all, forgiveness doesn’t entail that you approve of their conduct or wish to get back together.

3. Build your support network
Toxic partners tend to isolate you from your friends and loved ones to ensure that they are the only important figure in your life. However, this is not healthy. Having a support system of friends, colleagues, family and relatives can help you confide in them in times of need. They can also help you recognise gaslighting and toxic behaviors in your relationship, as they may be flourishing with support and love in a healthy relationship.

If you have been spending sleepless nights worrying about your future or your emotional health, then it may be wise to meet with a mental health professional. The right assistance can aid you in leaving the relationship and kickstarting your mental health journey on the right note.

Source:fakazanews

11/01/2022
Four reasons why you should travel solo frequently

We all want to go on trips with our friends and family and a year without that seems to go waste. However, the idea of solo travelling is not everyone’s cup of tea.

Many think they will feel left out in crowded places, and some feel that they won’t be able to enjoy themselves to the fullest. Amid all these thoughts, solo travelling takes a backseat.

However, if you are a true explorer the idea of solo travelling shouldn’t scare you. Here are 4 reasons why you should travel solo frequently.

1. You tend to become more independent
Travelling solo gives you the responsibility of taking care of yourself. You tend to stay more aware, alert and learn to do everything on your own. This helps you grow both mentally and emotionally. Add to it, the thrill of exploring places on your own, you feel confident and capable of facing any situation.

2. You get to learn precious lessons of life
It is only after you have travelled solo a couple of times that you would learn life lessons. Your perception of life will change for the better. Things will become clearer and transparent. You will meet different people and everyone will have a lesson to share, either good or bad. Besides, you will get to learn the different cultures and traditions of people. Good food will be an add-on.

3. You make new friends
Picture this. You are on a trip with your friends and meet a whole bunch of new people while on it. Would you mind sparing some time out and getting to know the new bunch or would that feel like a waste of time? Most probably, it’s the latter. Hence, when you are all alone exploring places, you will no longer find it weird and awkward to interact with new people. Instead, it will be a pleasure to get to know them and expand your friend list, not on social media but in real life.

4. Your curiosity flies high
It is only when you travel solo frequently that your hunger for knowing things will grow. Your curiosity will take a flight. You would want to learn more about your surroundings and will become more aware of what you see and how you handle it. If luck favours you, people would even start calling you human encyclopaedia.

A piece of advice. Don’t forget to buy a small souvenir from every place you visit, so that the memories can stay fresh for years to come.

Source:fakazanews

11/01/2022
How to confess your love to your best friend

Most of us must have fallen in love with our best friend, at least, once. And this seems to be a tricky situation to be in.

From keeping our feeling under the wraps to lying about them, we all end up worrying about losing our friend in the end.

However, most of the time, it becomes important to confess your feelings in front of your best friend.

Not only, but it will also save you from the uncalled-for jealousy when your best friend is dating someone else and from the insecurities of losing them.

So, gather some courage and confess your love to your best friend by following these 4 ways.

1. Give them subtle hints
The first step towards confessing your love to your best friend is always to give them subtle signs. It can be via healthy flirting or by showing them a little extra care, just what you feel is right. However, it should be kept low-key and once you think the time has come you can tell them straight, might as well they are already expecting this from you.

2. Meet at your favourite spot and tell them
We all have that one favourite spot where we always hang out with our best friends. Be it a café or a garden nearby, the place seems to be like heaven. So, when you decide to confess your love, ask your friend to meet at your favourite spot and tell them why you two are here. Never outrightly utter the 3 magical words, instead begin with saying how you have started seeing them a bit differently. However, don’t keep beating around the bush and be to the point.

3. A letter with a gift is perfect
Gift them their favourite thing and don’t forget to attach a sweet letter with it expressing your feelings. While some of you may say it’s such an old-school way of confessing love, trust us on this, old is gold. A letter can never go wrong unless your best friend is a bit tech-savvy. Begin your letter with how and when it happened and don’t ask them out. Just express their feelings and leave the rest up to them. If they, too, feel the same way for you, they will reciprocate or let you know, if you don’t get an answer, be happy with the fact that you two can still be friends.

3. Call them up in the middle of the night
There’s nothing called a right time to call up your best friend. You have all the liberty to message them all night or call them at 3 AM without any good reason. After all, that’s the beauty of friendship. So, if you don’t get a chance to confess your love face-to-face, call your best friend at night when they are free and tell them how you have been feeling lately. Don’t make it awkward by telling them unnecessary things, just do it beautifully without any ifs and buts.

While the aforementioned ways will definitely come to your rescue if you have been looking for ways to confess your love, it is always good to first know how your friend would react to it. If they are already in a relationship, either refrain from doing so or do it just to let your feelings out. Don’t expect them to say yes just because you are friends. Also, don’t constantly emphasise the fact that this will never change your relationship or ask them about the same since it can make things worse for you. Let it all happen naturally.

Source:fakazanews

11/01/2022
Fascinating facts about Africa

Africa is distinctively unique continent among all 7 continents of the world. It has a very diverse culture.

Africa is rich in cultural heritage and diversity, a wealth of natural resources, offers breathtaking tourist attractions.

These interesting facts about Africa are must to be known.

Interesting facts about Africa
1. Africa is the second-largest continent in the world both in size and population.

2. Islam is the dominant religion in Africa. Christianity is the second. Arabic is also the most widely-spoken language in Africa.

3. Africa has the shortest coastline despite being the second largest continent in the world.

4. Africa is the most centrally located continent in the world. Both the prime meridian (0 degrees longitude), and the equator (0 degrees latitude) cut across it.

5. Nigeria has the highest population (154.7 million people) in Africa. This represents 18% of Africa’s total population.

6. Both the world’s tallest and largest land animals both come from Africa. They are the giraffe and African elephant, respectively.

7. Around 2,000 different languages are spoken in Africa and each of them have different dialects while Arabic is the language that is most widely spoken in the African continent.

8. The world’s longest river — the Nile — and the world’s largest desert — the Sahara — both are home in Africa.

9. Algeria is the biggest country in Africa by land area.

10. The world’s hottest place — Ethiopia — is in Africa.

11. The continents terrain was inhabitable and remained unknown for thousands of years, earning it the name of ‘Dark Continent’.

12. The equator passes through the middle of the Dark Continent and it receives direct sunlight throughout the year.

13. The major animals in Africa include — cheetah, African elephant, lion, zebra, Egyptian mongoose, giraffe, addax.

14. The largest waterfall in Africa is the Victoria Falls and it is located on the Zimbabwe and Zambia border. It has a height of 355 feet and the width of the water fall runs into almost a mile.

15. More than 50% of the world’s French-speaking population lives here on the continent.

16. Angola has more Portuguese speakers than Portugal.

17. Africa has a pink lake in Senegal.

18. Africa is the hottest continent on earth.

General facts about Africa
Size: 30,221,532 sq km
No. of countries: 54
Population: 1,216,130,000

10/01/2022
Three colours you should never use in your house

While some may want to keep their houses very elegant and subtle, others may want to go all out to experiment with things and give their house a different feel.

Most of the time, it may land our desired results, but there can be times when we just end up making our house loud, shouty, and cluttered.

The credit may go to our choice of furniture, home décor, and even colours. Yes, you read that right. Here is a list of 3 colours that you should never use in your house as they may give your house sad and negative vibes and you may end up feeling blue.

1. Black

While black can be your go-to colour when it comes to clothes and accessories, it shouldn’t be your choice when it comes to your house. Painting your house black or using home décor items that are mostly black in colour may give your house a dark feel. Your house will appear to be dimly lit and may even emit depressing vibes. Add to that, you may lose your focus and motivation, since it may make the environment lazy and fill it with screaming silence that may eat you up from inside.

2. Pink

Why not pink, it’s such a beautiful colour, you ask? Indeed, it is. But since the colour is on the lighter side it may look dirty after some time. Dirt, pollution and stains will shine bright on this beautiful colour and you may need to spend much on its maintenance. If you have pink walls, they will lose their shine in a few months and you may need to change them sooner than later. Also, while it may give you a feel-good feeling, if the hue isn’t right, it can break the deal for you. At times, pink can be a tricky colour to use and coordinate with other colours, more so, if your house is a bit on the darker side.

3. Dark green

Another colour that can potentially threaten the look of your house is dark green. While not many people dare to use this bold colour in their house, there are some out-of-the-box thinkers that may want to give it a try. So, save yourself from the hassle of having to live in a gloomy environment with sadness gripping every nook and corner of your house. However, if it’s about a cushion cover or a small piece of décor that has a touch of dark green or is of this colour, it won’t do much harm. But make sure, you only give a hint of this colour so that it blends in well with all the other colours and make your house beautifully vibrant. And, in the end, it will be your house that will do all the talking.

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10/01/2022
Six things every parent must do to make their child feel loved

Do you happen to recall the things that made you feel cherished as a child?

Well, child psychologists agree that love and family connections are imperative to a kid’s growth and development. After all, emotion and affection can be the founding stones of joy in a child’s life.

Hence, it is critical that parents use their actions and words to express to their child just how much he or she is loved every single day.

So, we list 6 simple things you can do to ensure your little ones know they are adored.

1. Set aside your phone or laptop at home
Kids tend to feel quite bored and exasperated when parents are always on the phone or laptop due to work. So, they especially love it when their parents set their electronic devices and simply engage with them. Hence, attempt to give your little ones your full attention when you come home from work, simply letting them tell you about their day can do wonders for their mood.

2. No TV during lunch or dinner
It can be tempting to unwind while watching television after a long day at work. Your kids may soon get addicted to TV with this routine and always ask to watch a cartoon on a smartphone or tablet during meal times. However, no screen-time during meals is a great rule as it lets your kids eat slowly and chew better rather than a rushed meal. You also get time together as a family to talk or simply catch up with each other.

3. Read to your kids before bedtime
In the digital age, kids are far more used to watching videos and cartoons than reading a book. If you read to your children using picture books during their bedtime routine, it could spark a joy for learning within them. This can be invaluable to them in the coming years.

4. Shower them with hugs and cuddles
Studies show that children who receive physical affection from their parents in the form of hugs and kisses or cuddles are less likely to develop behavioral issues growing up. There is also a decreased risk of depression as young children look to their parents for love and warmth. This tends to boost their self-esteem and makes them feel cherished.

5. Pen hilarious notes and messages for them
Having a fun relationship with your kids can help them open up to you in times of need instead keeping silent out of fear of getting a beating or harsh scolding. Creating an environment of trust and openness is advised. Humor is a great way to achieve this goal, so you can pen funny notes for your kids and leave them around the house. You may even give them a hilarious nickname or write affectionate messages to them to be sent with their lunch boxes.

6. Don’t silence their rambling stories
Children often tend to tell elaborate tales that are obviously important to them, but take up much of your time as they ramble on. However, respectfully hearing them out is key as it makes them feel loved and reiterates the fact that they are an important part of your household.

While it is understandable that you may have a full day of work or household chores ahead of you, spending a little time with your little ones every day can help them grow up while feeling loved and wanted.

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10/01/2022
Four lies that aren’t acceptable in a relationship

‘I was with my friends, hence couldn’t call back’. ‘I am over my ex’. ‘You’re just overthinking, I am not hiding anything from you’.

If your relationship is all about your partner trying to justify him or herself while you know the truth completely, there are chances that it’s time for you to move out.

Any lie, big or small, is a big no for a healthy and trustworthy relationship. So, if you find your partner lying for these 4 things, it might not just be mere lies but a red flag of a non-serious relationship.

1. They lie about who they hang out with
Transparency and communication with your partner are the foundations of a strong relationship. So, if you find your partner lying about who they hang out with or who they talk to, there’s something wrong. This might not necessarily mean they are cheating on you, or maybe it does, this is definitely a red signal that you should never ignore. Confront them about it, if you don’t get an honest and truthful answer, it’s time for you to understand that your relationship has become a victim of lies and betrayal.

2. They hide their money matters
While choosing to keep one’s money matters private is one’s calling, however, hiding it from your partner signals something serious. If your partner isn’t open about his or her financial matters with you, ask them for the reason behind it, or simply tell them that hiding things won’t do any good to them or your relationship, no matter how good intent they had behind it. If there’s no clarity still, confront them and make a decision.

3. They lie about getting over their ex
If your partner lies about getting over their ex and are still in touch with him or her, or secretly thinks about them, it’s another red sign to look out for. Past relationships are meant to be kept in the past, but if your partner is not getting over their ex, this might signify that they aren’t meant to be with you. Discuss the matter with them, and if all you get for an answer is a lie, you may need to move out for your better.

4. They lie about their personal or professional life
If you find your partner lying about their personal or professional life to you, never ignore this sign. It may signal something serious and you may even get in trouble in the future. Hence, always make sure your partner is crystal clear about his or her life with you. Ask them about their family, profession, and aspirations. Remember, a slight lie about any aspect of their life may get you in serious trouble.

Source:fakazanews

10/01/2022